The Grove School’s Visit

Our Foundation was pleased to welcome a Grove School class and teachers to an afternoon session at the house.

The Grove School is a co-educational college preparatory therapeutic boarding school located on 90 acres in Madison.

The group is studying non-profit institutions. Our Foundation was used in the presentation to illustrate the development and operation of such an entity. Specifically they learned the role of the Secretary of State in Hartford, the development of By-Laws and the election and role of officers.

Afterward they toured the House which demonstrated the purpose of restoring and maintaining the Deacon John Grave property.


A Festive Evening at the Grave Tavern

The Grave House has a rich history. Besides a residence, it was used for many things, including an infirmary, courtroom and school room. In early 1700 it served as a popular Tavern on the Boston Post Road.

On Saturday evening March 25th, 2017, the Board hosted the annual Tavern Night party and what a terrific time it was. A great crowd of supporters was treated to live music, hors d’oeuvres and chili. A roaring fire warmed the parlor where guests sat at tables and enjoyed the the evening’s music.

Our own Deacon John Grave Band of six musicians plus a wonderful female vocalist performed hits from the past. At the evening’s end the Band was given a long standing ovation.

Grave House Interior Project Completed

In early February 2017, the Martinez Painting Company finished the three week intensive job of repair, restoring, and painting the inside of our treasured house.

A select group from the Foundation reviewed the original restoration records to insure the job conformed in all details including paint colors. This group daily monitored the work product with Rob G, the foreman who was outstanding in his attention to detail.

First all surfaces were cleaned and all furniture moved and protected. Plastic barriers, HEPA vacuum and other means were used to insure all work areas remained clean and dust free.  All painted surfaces were scanned for lead. Those that tested positive were covered with a lead encapsulating primer.

All plaster walls, ceilings and painted areas were repaired, primed and covered with two coats of paint. Note that the Benjamin-Moore Williamsburg Collection was used with terrific results.  Natural surfaces were stained and some coated with linseed oil to match.

At the conclusion of the work, our group inspected the house and report that the project was very well done and we are extremely pleased.






Holiday Cheer Finale

January 8 of the New Year the directors of the Foundation held a festive party for members of the Deacon John Grave Foundation in appreciation for their support.

_DSC2079 _DSC2088_DSC2081The House was decorated for the holidays and a glowing fire welcomed all. Food, music, and good cheer made a very pleasant evening.  As usual Rick and Jim entertained everyone with ballads and good old folk tunes. Throughout the two hour party members got to meet or renew friendships with the Directors and other members.

A Child’s Colonial Holiday

IMG_0212bilde bilde-9 bilde-3 bilde-1 bilde-2 bilde-16On a December afternoon, the Grave House came alive with a host of your children, parents, and even grandparents celebrating an 18th century holiday.

But best of all, the children decorated gingerbread cookies and cooked them in the hearth beehive oven. They also made old fashioned tree ornaments to take home and sipped hot cocoa and enjoyed cookies.

Afterward the Deacon read holiday stories in front of a  roaring fire.  Later everyone joined together to sing  the tunes of the season, accompanied by guitar music.

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2016 Holiday Faire

FullSizeRenderIMG_0195The Grave House was decorated for the holiday season and for four days visitors shopped for gifts. Vendors provided a wide arrangement of items including baked goods, holiday trimmings, jewelry, and special apparel.  Thursday evening was special with cookies, hot cocoa, and wine.


Grave House Goblins

On Oct 29th the Madison Newcomers sponsored their annual Monster March. A huge crowd of young children dressed in Halloween costumes paraded through downtown Madison and ended up at the Grave House barn. They were joined by proud parents, grandparents, and friends. Special treats and healthy snacks including apples, bagels,and yogurt were enjoyed by the children.






Country Day School Annual Visit

This October a large second grade class from Madison’s Country Day School joined us
for a fall visit. This was especially momentous since this education program has
been continuously running at the Grave House for fifteen years. Upon arrival, the
children participated in a morning program which focused on everyday life in colonial
New England. The students toured the Grave House and were provided with examples
of the daily activities and chores of children in the 18th century. Highlights included,
hearth cooking, flax to linen production, locating the “secret staircase, and ending with
time to play colonial games outside on the grounds. We look forward to next year.

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19th Annual Bauer Park Harvest Festival

On a beautiful fall Saturday in October, board members in colonial costume joined in the
fun at the Bauer Park Harvest Festival, sharing with visitors the ins and outs of the 18th
century manufacture of linen. Visitors were educated on how linen was made, from
growing the flax, to drying, harvesting the inner fibers, then finally spinning and
weaving. Eighteenth century tools such as a flax brake, swingling knife and hetchel
were demonstrated and explained.  A little trivia was included as well, such as where the
saying “ girl with the flaxen hair” came from – answer: the “blond” flax threads. In
addition to our demonstration at the festival, children enjoyed a hay maze, pony rides,
hay rides as well as pumpkin painting and making their own fresh pressed apple cider.


Oregon Visit


Grave descendants

A Special Visit From Oregon

On an October 1st afternoon a Seventh Generation Direct Descendant of John the Second and Elizabeth Grave toured the House and grounds.

Marian Graves Lovie and husband, Robert Thomas traveled from Beaverton, Oregon to the 1685 House where that Grandfather was born.

A detailed inspection of the House and narrative of the Grave 300 year ownership was very personal and appreciated.